Are you thinking that lesbian online dating takes too long?

Are you discouraged by how long it’s taking to find your new love?

You want results and you want them yesterday.

You’re sick and tired of being alone and lonely and this online dating thing just continues to suck.

You thought it would be like going out to buy sweets. Just pick what you like and tada! That’s not happening for most women.

Well that’s a whole lot of negative attitude working but I know it happens and you feel that way sometimes.

Let’s bring some clarity into the picture ok? Here’s the deal, I’m pulling back the covers on one of my coaching strategies for my private VIP clients. This is an insider peak at some of the insight and support I deliver to my coaching clients.

Why am I sharing this here for free? I love being able to help gay girls break through their barriers to finding love. I want to help you too in a real and valuable way.

So getting clarity about lesbian online dating requires doing some math – Lesbian Love Math! We are going to do some plain division. You can do that right? Are you ready?

Quitting Lesbian Online Dating Is A Big Barrier To Finding Love

Why? Because online dating sites provide some of the easiest access you’ll have to available single lesbians anywhere. This is a truth you need to embrace unless you are still in college and then you are probably surrounded by young lesbians who are ready to date you!

For the rest of us, let’s do some Lesbian Love Math!

First Number:

How many years has it been since you graduated from high school? ____

Second Number:

How many times in your life have you been in love? ____

Third Number:

Divide the top number by the bottom number. ____

Here you have in black and white a number that tells you how hard it is to find love (approximately) and how many years there are in between your real love relationships.

Fourth Number:

How long is it reasonable for you to date online before you find the one? ____  (Did you write months down? Do you need to recheck your math?)

So Does Lesbian Online Dating Take Too Long?

Here is an example of Lesbian Love Math for you…

First Number:

How many years has it been since you graduated from high school?

24 years

Second Number:

How many times in your life have you been in love?

3

Third Number:

Divide the top number by the bottom number.

24/3 = 7 years

Here you have in black and white a number that tells you how hard it is to find love (approximately) and how many years there are in between your real love relationships.

Fourth Number:

How long is it reasonable for you to date online before you find the one?

1-2 years

(or 12-24 months)

Now what’s your Love Tally? What’s the realistic number of months it will take for you to find someone who is a great match for you?

This is a let’s get real math problem and if you’ve been honest with the math, most of you will realize you need to make a strong commitment to the time it will take to find love.

Don’t Let Your Number Discourage You About Lesbian Online Dating!

And remember is your focus just having a quickie or finding someone you can spend your life with? So NO GETTING DISCOURAGED. This is about getting real and getting clear.

Lesbian Love Math not about creating discouragement but creating a sense of enlightenment and empowerment. When you understand that it is going to take a while, you can relax and enjoy the process. You can stop sabotaging the process. You can breathe easier because it means there is NOTHING WRONG with you!!

Don’t you love knowing that you’re not messing up, you’re not lost or over the hill. Successful dating is about strategy, facts and stamina.

And YES YOU CAN DO IT!  So leave me a message on the blog and let me know what your number is!

Sending you a warm hug!

Mary Gorham Malia is a gay girl who’s passed the age of 50, survived menopause, hot flashes and night sweats, raised two children, came out later in life and divorced, grew from being a baby dyke to a lesbian with many dating experiences, has been rescued from cubicle nation and now finds the wisdom of being a bit older as the salvation she always wanted. She’s gone from being lost and late to lesbian life to being a seasoned life traveler who has a commitment to reach out to the lesbian nation and make a difference for lgbt women.

Her business, Gay Girl Dating, LLC, was founded on the belief that lesbian, gay, queer, bi and transgender women can live extraordinary lives when they understand the principles and practices that make life great and put these practices into action in their own lives.

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