The Gay Girl Love Tour – Summer Route Announced

It’s On! The Gay Girl Love Tour is in full swing June and July. You asked me to please come back! You asked me to please come to more locations! It’s ON gay girl!! I’ll be swinging by a few cities I visited in 2013 then bringing dating workshops to new locations. Is A Dating […]

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Wonder-Women Pride New York City

It’s time to kick-off PRIDE and one of my favorite New York City people makes it happen. Aliya Hallim- Bynn, the founder of Wonder-Women.org cracks open her gay girl tool box to put on one of the best parties for women in the city. It’s the 4th Annual Pride Kick-Off Event! Join Aliya and myself, on […]

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Do You Pinterest Your Lovely Lesbian Life?

From my Pinterest boards…Here are some lovely things to look at and then make and then EAT! Follow Mary Gorham Malia ~ Gay Girl Dating Coach’s board Lesbians LOVE Food on Pinterest. Come and follow me on Pinterest. Share your favorite recipes for food and perhaps for love too!  

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Lesbian Spring Cleaning

Spring has officially busted out in Maine. Is spring visiting your location? Spring is about new starts. New starts mean cleaning out the old. It’s time to open the windows and air your life out! So I’ve come up with a great new series for you – Lesbian Spring Cleaning! Ok, so you’ve never heard […]

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How To Hack OkCupid Questions

Do you know how to hack OkCupid Questions? If you’re on OkCupid you’ve seen the questions. You’ve answered the questions. You’ve sworn at the questions. You’ve laughed at the questions. You’ve ignored the questions. You’ve read the answers other women gave to questions and thought, “Oh damn, wish I’d thought of that” or “That’s a […]

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How To Hack OkCupid

It takes some focus, but you can learn how to hack OkCupid just like the math nerd Chris McKinley did and you don’t have to be a math genius to do it. If you read  Chris’s story, you’ll discover he had 89 first dates, very few second and only a couple third dates. Don’t you feel better already! […]

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Dating Lesbians With Kids

I could be crazy for writing this post – Dating Lesbian’s With Kids – but I’m going to take my chances! I’m a lesbian with kids. They are both grown now, but it wasn’t always that way and it created more than a few problems when my daughter was younger. Most were my fault based […]

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First Dates for Lesbians in New York City – Day 2

There are a few reasons to go on first dates in New York City. One important reason is that it’s the only way to get to date #2, #3, #4 and beyond. It’s that ‘beyond territory’ that gets you to a real relationship. Most women look to date locally. Adventurous women will look beyond local […]

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New York City and This Lesbian

I’m here in New York City to check out the lesbian scene and make time for some festivity and merriment. It’s the Gay Girl Love Tour in New York City. And it’s a really big city and I’m feeling a bit tiny! There is also all the usual work to get done. Clients, writing, learning, […]

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